i dunno whether its a writers block or is it my inability to describe true emotions in words,
do i not have d courage to give an intricately bitter and hateful description of sumthing that is conservatively considered sacred.
why r sumthings jus presented to us in a way which leaves us with no option but to accept them and respect them.
the institution of marriage,the importance of family and the issue of a single sexual partner are topics that you'd rather not debate against ,when in India or if u do then be prepared to be condemned.. to be looked down upon like u were a filthy alien who was castin doom
u can't n u shouldn't debate the "sanctity"..of such things in d interest of ur own mental peace ..plus topics like these are so close to ones heart that its no use discussin them in d public domain and gettin them analyzed(uselessly) and criticized(unhealthily)by ppl who are fortunate enough to not have faced such dilemmas in life
there r somethings that u can neither live with nor live without
is it such a sin after all,to try n not succeed in getting along with family?
is it such a sin to think about another person when ur love's not around?
is it such a sin to not want to marry?
is it such a sin as to consider marriage futile yet live with the person u love?
is there anythin at all which could be wrong for one n all,does human mind n body not differ at all when is respect of these "universal guidelines"or these "facts" which are hardwired in us from d moment we are born..are we never to question d basis of these "divine principles"..are we to marry if we are born..is marriage the only sacred bond..is love not enough?
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seems more rhetorical....(thts wht blogs are for:P)....seriously(as much as i can i.e.) speaking, progress is a relative term...yes people are more open to questioning n reasoning thn evr before but BLIND FAITH does exist....there are certain facts tht wud b beyond reasoning to thm.....some ppl more soo..n the situation wud nvr cease...aftr all isnt belief in GOD also blind faith?? Its beyond reasoning(for almost all believers i met in short lived lyf as of nw)...u might tend to disagree but thn again tht wud b Blind faith which drives u to find a justifiable reason...
whoa suraj.!u got brains.lol.ok apart from sarcasm!!:)yes,we are in an all new morality questionin age now.!
aah cnt keep sarcasm outta everything ....nw this is more lik sarcasm..:)...newayz good to knw u finally woke up coz the morality questioning age has been here for ages.......it just evolves...nvr outta vogue...
okies.R.E.S.P.E.C.T.
the question has been there,accepted.BUT.are people as open n acceptin about it in practice as in theory?we now know that there is flip side to morality and it doesnt necessarily mean ur immoral or morally degraded.its jus practical or more comfortable to settle for sumthin thats "not so ideal"
The questions ahve always been there. Only the form in which they have been posed has changed.
Personally, If i were to answer those it would be something like..
if you come from a family that has loved you and cared for you, then there is no question fo loving them or not loving them because the love would come naturally...
multiple sexual partners.. yes.. when in a relationship, no...
marriage? not necessary..
i know i know... the questions were rhetorical.. but am so wella these days.. hehehe ;P
and in India.. well we r a long way off, before people even start discussing these issues rationally...
p.s. India doesn't consist of open minded youngsters and the metros.. the Real India is years away from even considering these questions, let alone discussing them..
ummm i love ur answers rohit,but still the questions are rhetorical only with the assumptions u hav made.
love would come naturally with a family that has loved and respected u..
well but is it so unimaginable to b born in a family that does not really love or respect u..?
wot then?
can anyone accept the fact that they don really love their family or may b cant stand their family.?jus a thought?well they may accept it..but can they talk about the bitterness?won't they b taken as wrong jus by virtue of not respecting the familY?
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